tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954304001669276295.post5621811529838536121..comments2023-06-19T03:48:40.473-05:00Comments on God Walked Into This Bar: 5 Ordinary Little ThingsKary Mayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12674442468925628974noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954304001669276295.post-47179781844219219522011-08-11T10:45:28.759-05:002011-08-11T10:45:28.759-05:00Thank you, I do feel content and I've pondered...Thank you, I do feel content and I've pondered on why this abs period has been so easy and I think it's the fact that I've finally accepted that permanent abs is the only choice for me. It's taken me off of that see-saw and my brain can start focusing on something else. I know that some people might see the capn offering me wine as a form of sabotage but I think it's more like when your teenager has misbehaved and you take away his car and then he goes out of his way to behave and you think you might have been a little harsh and relent. Besides your tired of him moping around the house. I think sometimes we have to realize that just like us,our SO's miss things about our drinking persona's and they're worried that they are not going to like the new us either.Kary May Hickeyhttp://godwalkedintothisbar.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954304001669276295.post-4980467458863289492011-08-10T18:37:35.004-05:002011-08-10T18:37:35.004-05:00Thanks : I have a similar situation at home - my h...Thanks : I have a similar situation at home - my hubs is very sweet and can take or leave the next drink or doesn't really *get it* that it's not really a choice for me . Your blogging has a contentedness to it this last month xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954304001669276295.post-32970784357657812011-08-08T18:14:48.710-05:002011-08-08T18:14:48.710-05:00The cap'n still doesn't believe I am an al...The cap'n still doesn't believe I am an alcoholic, he thinks I can moderate if I just try harder. He's never really minded my drinking, he just can no longer tolerate my disfunction when I am recovering. I used to be able to drink and then go about my business even though I was hungover the next day, I can't do that anymore. I don't think I started drinking more, I think I developed a physical addiction and when I would quit drinking I would go through withdrawl which is a hell of a lot worse than a hangover. He drinks but he doesn't go through withdrawl and he can function so he just does not get it. I think, he thinks he is being "nice" to offer wine but he doesn't pressure me and he accepts my choice not to drink.Kary Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674442468925628974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5954304001669276295.post-33666836357111085062011-08-08T17:07:18.506-05:002011-08-08T17:07:18.506-05:00Im enjoying your blog . Thanks to both you and the...Im enjoying your blog . Thanks to both you and the co<br />Writer for taking the time<br /><br />I'm curious though - why does the captain suggest wine given your alcoholism ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com